
Ephesians 5:22-33
22Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing[b] her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church— 30for we are members of his body. 31"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."[c] 32This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.33However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
I would like to start this post by thanking the Lord for my precious husband, Rob. God blessed me beyond measure when he brought Rob into my life. If I have said it once, I've said it a thousand times....aside from my Bible, Rob is my greatest earthly treasure given to me by the Lord.
As I tossed around which of the topics to choose from for the post, it became quite evident to me which one that I should write about. For me, it was the obvious choice...."A cord of three strands is not quickly broken". I love this. I love the picture of the Trinity, but especially in the biblical picture of marriage. Most think that the husband and the wife are what completes the picture of marriage, but on the contrary. The picture of the Christian marriage is not complete without the third strand in the cord...the Holy Spirit. Without Him, the two of us would be nothing. We would not make it trying to serve each other if we were not serving Him first. There is no way that Rob could love me, nor could I be submissive to Rob's leadership in our home if we did not have Jesus in our hearts. The scripture is very clear in the definition of our roles in this marriage and it's a definition that we fully intend to follow.
The chosen path of love and submission is certainly not one that doesn't involve hard work. We BOTH have to work at it. But more importantly, it should be approached with the greatest of care. And the greatest way to care for our marriages is to bathe them in prayer. I'm not saying that you have to hunch in a dark closet for hours on end in order to be prayerful about your marriage (or anything for that matter). Daily prayer in my quiet times and what I consider a constant prayerful heart (always having prayer on my mind during day to day tasks) are what work the best for me.
Recently, I learned of a book that my sister Julie was reading. Just after reading a few pages, I saw what an incredible tool that this book would be in addition to my own prayers. It was a fantastic guide (and very inexpensive, I might add) to praying scriptures over our husbands. The book is called "Prayers of an Excellent Wife", by Andrew Case. I highly recommend this book...and quite frankly, I have told dozens of people about it since then. There is also a companion book by the same author for husbands called "Water of the Word: Intercession For Her". Rob has a copy of it as well. Case has taken the actual written scriptures and melded them into a specific prayer. Dear Sisters....the GLUE that binds the three cords together (in my humble opinion) is prayer, prayer and more prayer. Petitioning the Father over our marriages could not be any more important. Every need...every thought....every EVERYTHING that is going on in your marriage, from the smallest, most seemingly insignificant thing, to the BIGGEST of the big things in your marriage....they are all worthy of bringing before the Father. Scripture is very clear on this in Paul's letter to the Philippians (Philippians 4) when he says:
4Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 5Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 8Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. 9Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
Dear Sisters, I pray that the third strand in the cord of your marriage is Jesus Christ. I pray that your marriage will be blessed, that it is complete and that you are the apple of your husband's eye. I thank my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ before everyone reading this post for my husband...from the top of his head to the soles of his feet. May the strands of the cord of all of our marriages be woven together as tightly as the Lord will hold them.
I thought I would leave you with one of the prayers from the book that I mentioned to you. I wanted you to see the format so that you might consider getting a copy of it for yourself. As a matter of fact, the author has even offered a FREE .pdf copy of this book to you by visiting His Magnificence (how much better can you get...it's FREE!). The author has also granted permission for any part of the text to be shared or reproduced, so long as you don't charge for it or alter it in any way. So, with that said dear sisters....please share it with your friends! It has blessed me beyond belief and I know it will bless you as well.
The prayer below is very special to me and I have read it over and over....and it is especially meaningful to me in light of the topic in this post. I pray it will bless you as well.
May God richly bless you!


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